It’s no secret that I am a dedicated disciple of Gretchen Rubin. Her book “The Happiness Project” changed my life more than any other book in the past couple of years. And she’s done it again with her newest book “The Four Tendencies”. Have you ever wondered why you can readily meet the expectations others have for you but can’t make yourself stick to a regime you set for yourself? Or why you’re completely bent out of shape over a last minute change to plans? You may be an Obliger or an Upholder (respectively). Or maybe you’re a law only…